Most of us spend our entire lives looking for the answer. To get it right. To not be wrong. What if something else is possible? What if being the question is the answer you’ve been seeking? A question always empowers, an answer always disempowers.

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A fundamental tool in Access is living in and as the question. It's about exploring all possibilities. When you are open to the adventure of curiosity, everything becomes possible and anything you desire to create or change can occur with total ease.

The one key difference is that when you ask, it needs to be from the space of a true question. Not an answer with a question mark attached.  An open ended question opens the door to a different set of possibilities, an infinite set of possibilities.  
 

• Instead of asking “What’s wrong with me?” ask “What’s right with me I’m not getting?"

• Instead of asking “Could it get any worse?” ask “How does it get any better than this?"

• Instead of deciding “Nothing is going to change here” ask “What else is possible that I’ve never considered?"

Asking a question gives you an awareness of what could be possible, of the choices you could make. Seeking a solution makes you look for the right answer. There is almost never a right answer and so you tie yourself up in thinking about what you wish could be possible, rather than asking the questions which would show you an array of possibilities that are far beyond your wildest dreams.